Yes you read me right, there's another way to find me!!
I've created another blog which is basically an extension for urbanLove.
It can be found on WordPress as I wanted to see what the fuss is all about. I have several friends and colleagues who post on WP and love it.
And I like Blogger ALOT, but am always up to check out new things.
So!!
You can find me here: http://urbanloveinvites.wordpress.com/
This being said, I can't confirm how often I will be on Blogger, but I'll probably check in from time to time!
Happy reading! :D
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Monday, April 19, 2010
Pics with Captions Part #2
Yep, same old story as before: super duper pooper busy!
I've finalized a couple wedding orders, taken some time out to be the "cool, hip Mom" for my daughter's school trip, went on a hike, took some pics (pft, obv....like I even had to say, lol) and have also continued on strengthening my wedding designs so I can launch that new site of mine and soon!!
Dang.
I know!!
Plus there's a slew of birthdays a-comin' so I've been out and about gathering trinkets as gifts and have found some GREAT finds...including an old wooden school desk (the kind with the lift top) for, get this, Three Freakin Seventy Five! And there's a decimal in between the Three and the Seventy Five! $3.75! No lie, yo. I'll post pics later as I may just do a whole entry on that alone :D
Anyways, a few pics for you...enjoy!
My sister collaborates with the yearly Fashion n' Motion show held at Wilfred Laurier University. They rocked it as per usual!!
The cast finishing up a number :)
You ever see that Reitman's commercial where that "catwalky" type song plays? It makes you wanna strut when you hear it? No, don't remember? I do. And this is the song I think of when I see this picture.
The boyz in the 'hood get ready to give us a show down, a throw down, hell no they ain't gonna slow down.
Took my Zoe to an art fair at the local downtown library. The Handmade Festival has a closing show on May 6th. I will be there, will you?
Ireland's baby shower!!! Her parents, (seen above here) Tyler and Sarah are also HUGE Pumpkins fans so I made them....
THIS!
A custom-made baby tshirt with the caption Smashing Pumpkins Friggin Rule and (shown above) What Do You Mean "Who is Billy Corgan? Seriously?" LMAO...
This is Rebekah. She's been one of my BFF's for like, a long long time. And in that long long time, she's never really bought her own house. Until now. And now, she's fixing it up. Like, tearing down walls, ceilings, mudding and painting and...from time to time, peppered her days with a little swearing. Because sometimes, an artist needs to.
Went on a road trip. Found a cool sign. Sharing it with you.
Same road trip, different sign. Still sharing.
The tornado of energy that is my son. Love Love.
My gorgeous childhood friend Cat. I call her Kitty Cat, and this day, the Kitty was in the City. We met up at the Galleria and took a nice stroll through...
...my favourite park :)
This is my Pretty Deb, another childhood friend. I'm designing her custom-made wedding invitations and yes, not to sound pretentious but I f'kn rocked them. They will be printed and mailed out soon, so watch for yours!! :)
This is wall gum, downtown London. Oh how I love Richmond Row, lol. You find the coolest shit.
Took Zoey on a hike. Showed her nature at sunset and how beautiful life really is. Then we looked down and to the left a little. Never guess what we found: a nudie mad with torn pages strewn across the forest floor. Talk about a "nature" walk, lol.
I took pics of such hilarious debris, however I'm unsure of the restrictions of Blogger so I didn't post the picture I took...however I guess I could have just pixelated her lady bits out. Another post for another time I suppose, lol.
This is a local centuries-old train station that is being restructured. You can't see it but there were two (hot) workers up on a boom near the corner. Thanks to the wonders of Clone Stamp, I was able to remove them. One day, I may have Content Aware, but until then...
Dammit, I'm blocked in again! (perimeter shot). I see Timmy in the window, hi Timmy!
Simultaneously eerie and beautiful.
Yeah the office is down at the very end of the hall.
Click click goes the shutter on my camera :D
I've finalized a couple wedding orders, taken some time out to be the "cool, hip Mom" for my daughter's school trip, went on a hike, took some pics (pft, obv....like I even had to say, lol) and have also continued on strengthening my wedding designs so I can launch that new site of mine and soon!!
Dang.
I know!!
Plus there's a slew of birthdays a-comin' so I've been out and about gathering trinkets as gifts and have found some GREAT finds...including an old wooden school desk (the kind with the lift top) for, get this, Three Freakin Seventy Five! And there's a decimal in between the Three and the Seventy Five! $3.75! No lie, yo. I'll post pics later as I may just do a whole entry on that alone :D
Anyways, a few pics for you...enjoy!
My sister collaborates with the yearly Fashion n' Motion show held at Wilfred Laurier University. They rocked it as per usual!!
The cast finishing up a number :)
You ever see that Reitman's commercial where that "catwalky" type song plays? It makes you wanna strut when you hear it? No, don't remember? I do. And this is the song I think of when I see this picture.
The boyz in the 'hood get ready to give us a show down, a throw down, hell no they ain't gonna slow down.
Took my Zoe to an art fair at the local downtown library. The Handmade Festival has a closing show on May 6th. I will be there, will you?
Ireland's baby shower!!! Her parents, (seen above here) Tyler and Sarah are also HUGE Pumpkins fans so I made them....
THIS!
A custom-made baby tshirt with the caption Smashing Pumpkins Friggin Rule and (shown above) What Do You Mean "Who is Billy Corgan? Seriously?" LMAO...
This is Rebekah. She's been one of my BFF's for like, a long long time. And in that long long time, she's never really bought her own house. Until now. And now, she's fixing it up. Like, tearing down walls, ceilings, mudding and painting and...from time to time, peppered her days with a little swearing. Because sometimes, an artist needs to.
Went on a road trip. Found a cool sign. Sharing it with you.
Same road trip, different sign. Still sharing.
The tornado of energy that is my son. Love Love.
My gorgeous childhood friend Cat. I call her Kitty Cat, and this day, the Kitty was in the City. We met up at the Galleria and took a nice stroll through...
...my favourite park :)
This is my Pretty Deb, another childhood friend. I'm designing her custom-made wedding invitations and yes, not to sound pretentious but I f'kn rocked them. They will be printed and mailed out soon, so watch for yours!! :)
This is wall gum, downtown London. Oh how I love Richmond Row, lol. You find the coolest shit.
Took Zoey on a hike. Showed her nature at sunset and how beautiful life really is. Then we looked down and to the left a little. Never guess what we found: a nudie mad with torn pages strewn across the forest floor. Talk about a "nature" walk, lol.
I took pics of such hilarious debris, however I'm unsure of the restrictions of Blogger so I didn't post the picture I took...however I guess I could have just pixelated her lady bits out. Another post for another time I suppose, lol.
This is a local centuries-old train station that is being restructured. You can't see it but there were two (hot) workers up on a boom near the corner. Thanks to the wonders of Clone Stamp, I was able to remove them. One day, I may have Content Aware, but until then...
Dammit, I'm blocked in again! (perimeter shot). I see Timmy in the window, hi Timmy!
Simultaneously eerie and beautiful.
Yeah the office is down at the very end of the hall.
Click click goes the shutter on my camera :D
Friday, March 26, 2010
Yer Cheatin' Heart
I am getting SO sick of hearing about how all these celebrity men are cheating on their wives. It's absolutely disgusting. Obviously, they take for granted the goodness that they have...I realize I do not live their lives and see what it's like in their living rooms and kitchens from day to day, but come on! Tiger had a rumoured EIGHTEEN women and Jesse James is alleged to have 3.
So I took to my design programs and pumped out some anti-cheating greeting cards; attached you see here is one of the many I've done. Personally I love it and not "just cause it's my design" but because it's cute and funny and to the point. That's the kind of sense of humour I have.
If ever this post finds Elin and Sandra, ladies, stay strong...kids or no kids, you deserve better. Having a stupid drunk fling in Vegas is one thing (still unacceptable) but it's the secrecy and behind-your-back coupled with the length of time that makes this horrifying.
How could you ever trust him again? Just sayin'...
FRONT: I'm sorry your husband cheated on you.
INSIDE: If I were you, I'd get the golf clubs ready. xoxo
So I took to my design programs and pumped out some anti-cheating greeting cards; attached you see here is one of the many I've done. Personally I love it and not "just cause it's my design" but because it's cute and funny and to the point. That's the kind of sense of humour I have.
If ever this post finds Elin and Sandra, ladies, stay strong...kids or no kids, you deserve better. Having a stupid drunk fling in Vegas is one thing (still unacceptable) but it's the secrecy and behind-your-back coupled with the length of time that makes this horrifying.
How could you ever trust him again? Just sayin'...
FRONT: I'm sorry your husband cheated on you.
INSIDE: If I were you, I'd get the golf clubs ready. xoxo
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Social Life Update
OK.
I'm not saying I am the most popular person on the face of the earth, but in the last few months my social life has prit'damn'near exploded! I've had so much going on and I'm so grateful for these opportunities to not only just get out of the house, but to network, to show my kids that there is more to the world than our living room, and of course, to take pictures :D
^^ my actual calendar
I've gone up north (ok, well Newmarket...which is technically north of me) to see old friends, I finally had the opportunity to go to Covent Garden Market (finally! I know!), I've taken my daughter Z to an Art Fair, we went to see my sister's choreographed dance routine at Laurier last night and we are heading, in mere minutes, out the door to my good friends Tyler and Sarah's baby shower.
Then, there's another art show that's being thrown by my girlfriend from highschool, Tennille Will so I'm looking forward to that! And then there is an open house at Fanshawe that I am going to (and taking Z with so she can get an idea of what college life has to offer), after that is another baby shower, and then finally, on the 29th, Z and a couple of her friends are going to a teen Make-Up class, for fun! But since I'm the only one with a valid license, I get to play Taxi.
Oh gosh, plus I'm working on some new urbanLovely's, an expansion, and other yummies to tell you about so stay tuned, bookmark me, and we'll chat at ya later!
xoxo
Lisa
I'm not saying I am the most popular person on the face of the earth, but in the last few months my social life has prit'damn'near exploded! I've had so much going on and I'm so grateful for these opportunities to not only just get out of the house, but to network, to show my kids that there is more to the world than our living room, and of course, to take pictures :D
^^ my actual calendar
I've gone up north (ok, well Newmarket...which is technically north of me) to see old friends, I finally had the opportunity to go to Covent Garden Market (finally! I know!), I've taken my daughter Z to an Art Fair, we went to see my sister's choreographed dance routine at Laurier last night and we are heading, in mere minutes, out the door to my good friends Tyler and Sarah's baby shower.
Then, there's another art show that's being thrown by my girlfriend from highschool, Tennille Will so I'm looking forward to that! And then there is an open house at Fanshawe that I am going to (and taking Z with so she can get an idea of what college life has to offer), after that is another baby shower, and then finally, on the 29th, Z and a couple of her friends are going to a teen Make-Up class, for fun! But since I'm the only one with a valid license, I get to play Taxi.
Oh gosh, plus I'm working on some new urbanLovely's, an expansion, and other yummies to tell you about so stay tuned, bookmark me, and we'll chat at ya later!
SO!
I will be posting another "No Story Just Pictures" blog soon enough to encompass the Everything That's Going On :)
xoxo
Lisa
Friday, March 19, 2010
The Re-Birth of Slick
I always knew that 2010 was going to be my year. 3 months into it, I've begun making important changes to urbanLove's "infrastructure".
I'm re-newing. Re-builidng. Re-birthing...ok that latter sounds kinda gross, but point is, there will be many changes being unveiled in the coming months. Hopefully weeks if I get my way ;)
Because I'm awesome, I will keep you posted.
But I can't wait for the next chapter to begin...so many more levels to me as an artist and another online venue, if you will, for urbanLove.....
vroom.....
I'm re-newing. Re-builidng. Re-birthing...ok that latter sounds kinda gross, but point is, there will be many changes being unveiled in the coming months. Hopefully weeks if I get my way ;)
Because I'm awesome, I will keep you posted.
But I can't wait for the next chapter to begin...so many more levels to me as an artist and another online venue, if you will, for urbanLove.....
vroom.....
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
No Story, Just Pics with Captions
Yeah, no I've been THAT busy lately that I had no other option but to just post-a-pic for this entry. And with more wonderfuls scheduled in my calendar for the next few weeks, my posts may not be very lengthly in words, but will tell a story of a thousand words from the photos :) Stay tuned for more...
One of the handful of 3-cent shots that I got stuck in the snow for. Train bridges are quite majestic. So are deep tire tracks but we won't dwell on that.
Oh how Rocky Mountain Chocolates is a God to my taste buds and even better for my ass! (I'm trying to gain weight here!)
Me goofing off for the camera. I'm a ham. On sale for $5 a pound. WHAT?
My 2.5 year old son enjoying the winterized park.
Family Day Bowling; although Nick and I are separated we do know the importance of being friends so the kids learn that separation does not mean war in the ranks. Very important.
Besides, it was my Mom and Dad who initially invited him along not me ;)
I have a sock fetish.
Fuzzy pink socks, man. You wouldn't have been able to say no to them either, especially on sale for $1.
Sock fetish continues......got these for a buck as well.
..and the heavens sprinkled my childhood memories with dust....
My daughter not at all impressed I am taking her pic. It was either that, or she clean her room.
Mom wins.
So, I decided to do a solo shoot in a local park and thought I was Superwoman who would be able to get back up the hill without getting stuck. Yeah I don't know much, lol.
1/32 tank and 18 minutes later in between 1st and 2nd gear, I was out!
Ha! Take that, un-plowed parking lot!
Mom wins again. MAN I'm on a roll!
One of the handful of 3-cent shots that I got stuck in the snow for. Train bridges are quite majestic. So are deep tire tracks but we won't dwell on that.
Oh how Rocky Mountain Chocolates is a God to my taste buds and even better for my ass! (I'm trying to gain weight here!)
Me goofing off for the camera. I'm a ham. On sale for $5 a pound. WHAT?
My 2.5 year old son enjoying the winterized park.
Family Day Bowling; although Nick and I are separated we do know the importance of being friends so the kids learn that separation does not mean war in the ranks. Very important.
Besides, it was my Mom and Dad who initially invited him along not me ;)
So I'm single, and my sister is single (yes she's hotter than me by leaps and bounds and NO you may not get her number) and she thought that she would write me a lil' love note, complete with a bouquet of roses and some chocolate covered strawberries and left those gorgeous treats on my door step when I was out one evening.
Everyone should have a sister like mine. She really does rock. xoxo Love ya Kate!
Everyone should have a sister like mine. She really does rock. xoxo Love ya Kate!
This is an amazing painting by my "sister" Paula Jolly. I say sister in quotations because her and Katy (see note above) have been BFF's before the term was even coined and during a time when the New Kids on the Block were just getting started.
And since she's been a part of my life for so long, I adopted her one day.
I have a sock fetish.
Fuzzy pink socks, man. You wouldn't have been able to say no to them either, especially on sale for $1.
Sock fetish continues......got these for a buck as well.
Sit down, I have to tell you something....
..and the heavens sprinkled my childhood memories with dust....
Friday, February 26, 2010
Seriously.
I honestly don't know HOW:
a) things like this happen to me
b) my Psychic didn't see THIS one coming.
I got into another car accident a few days ago.
Fucking hell. I know!
Mother Nature really does not like me.
So this is what happened:
This past Monday, 10:30am.
Weather reports indicated that if possible, to stay home due to the onslaught of snow and ice and winter nastiness.
I was chatting on Facebook with my sister, telling her of my plans for the day and how I was going to BestBuy to look at some speakers for my computer as they were having a sale anyways, and also because I desperately wanted a set for my home office because I NEED to feel the bass against my feet as I design. I don't know how some corporate offices don't allow music; it's like a life blood, at least for me.
She specifically told me NOT to go, or at the very least to be careful.
"Yeah yeah, sure sure" I said to myself as I typed "I promise I will be careful"
OK for the record, I was being VERY careful.
At time of impact, I was doing 25kmh.
So I'm driving along Wellington, going north towards BestBuy. Saw the entrance, put my blinker on and then...something made me look out of the corner of my eye. I turned my head to the left and saw a mini-van, obviously losing control in the snow, swerving right to left to right again and then it hooked sharply to the left and aimed for me.
A car pulled up beside me just as the van jumped the median, slammed into her who slammed into me. It literally happened THAT fast. 123 done.
I spun out and ended up several meters off to the side, but from what I could tell there was no real damage caused. I mean, the front end was NOT smashed in like my Escort. And the engine was still running.
Opening my door, which now creaked like you were bending back metal, when it didn't half an hour prior, I got out and inspected. Yep, there was for sure a nice big dent and lots of scratches but to my (untrained) eye, I assumed maybe $1000 damage, max.
HA.
Yeah I really don't know nothin' :)
I cursed under my breath; what are the odds that after 2.5 months and a new car I would be in another accident. Sheesh.
Turning into the frigid wind, I stepped away and approached the other drivers to ensure everyone was okay. Both their vehicles were so badly damaged you could tell they were both write offs. As I exchanged information with them, I realized that if it weren't for the car between us, I would have ended up in worse shape.
No one was hurt, THANKFULLY, and what was more alarming is that in the van was a 4 week old baby, coming back from her first check-up. I teared up a bit; babies are so so so precious. I all of a sudden took back all the "crap, my 9 week old car!" comments in my mind and silently thanked God that she was unharmed.
Tow trucks came, and I went back to my car and called in the claim. I decided the speakers could wait, lol, so I drove home and decided along the way since I was passing through town to stop off at my mechanic's. Might as well, right?
Jerry took one look and directed me across the street to an auto-body repair shop. I spent damn near 45 minutes in there between initial assessment to calling in my claim for verification to securing a rental...
...I still have the rental: a 2010 hot blue Focus. LOVE it, other than the fact it's auto :(
I miss my lil' 5 speed!!
Anyways, my car suffered close to $4000 damage.
See where I was about 3-grand off? Haha....
New door, rocker panels, quarter panels, head lights, front bumper, paint job...all this for a set of $50 speakers.
Guess I shoulda just stayed home eh?
My sister knows best!
I will have the car back by end of next week ::hopefully::
Until then, I'm not driving ANYWHERE if there is more than an inch of snow.
a) things like this happen to me
b) my Psychic didn't see THIS one coming.
I got into another car accident a few days ago.
Fucking hell. I know!
Mother Nature really does not like me.
So this is what happened:
This past Monday, 10:30am.
Weather reports indicated that if possible, to stay home due to the onslaught of snow and ice and winter nastiness.
I was chatting on Facebook with my sister, telling her of my plans for the day and how I was going to BestBuy to look at some speakers for my computer as they were having a sale anyways, and also because I desperately wanted a set for my home office because I NEED to feel the bass against my feet as I design. I don't know how some corporate offices don't allow music; it's like a life blood, at least for me.
She specifically told me NOT to go, or at the very least to be careful.
"Yeah yeah, sure sure" I said to myself as I typed "I promise I will be careful"
OK for the record, I was being VERY careful.
At time of impact, I was doing 25kmh.
So I'm driving along Wellington, going north towards BestBuy. Saw the entrance, put my blinker on and then...something made me look out of the corner of my eye. I turned my head to the left and saw a mini-van, obviously losing control in the snow, swerving right to left to right again and then it hooked sharply to the left and aimed for me.
A car pulled up beside me just as the van jumped the median, slammed into her who slammed into me. It literally happened THAT fast. 123 done.
I spun out and ended up several meters off to the side, but from what I could tell there was no real damage caused. I mean, the front end was NOT smashed in like my Escort. And the engine was still running.
Opening my door, which now creaked like you were bending back metal, when it didn't half an hour prior, I got out and inspected. Yep, there was for sure a nice big dent and lots of scratches but to my (untrained) eye, I assumed maybe $1000 damage, max.
HA.
Yeah I really don't know nothin' :)
I cursed under my breath; what are the odds that after 2.5 months and a new car I would be in another accident. Sheesh.
Turning into the frigid wind, I stepped away and approached the other drivers to ensure everyone was okay. Both their vehicles were so badly damaged you could tell they were both write offs. As I exchanged information with them, I realized that if it weren't for the car between us, I would have ended up in worse shape.
No one was hurt, THANKFULLY, and what was more alarming is that in the van was a 4 week old baby, coming back from her first check-up. I teared up a bit; babies are so so so precious. I all of a sudden took back all the "crap, my 9 week old car!" comments in my mind and silently thanked God that she was unharmed.
Tow trucks came, and I went back to my car and called in the claim. I decided the speakers could wait, lol, so I drove home and decided along the way since I was passing through town to stop off at my mechanic's. Might as well, right?
Jerry took one look and directed me across the street to an auto-body repair shop. I spent damn near 45 minutes in there between initial assessment to calling in my claim for verification to securing a rental...
...I still have the rental: a 2010 hot blue Focus. LOVE it, other than the fact it's auto :(
I miss my lil' 5 speed!!
Anyways, my car suffered close to $4000 damage.
See where I was about 3-grand off? Haha....
New door, rocker panels, quarter panels, head lights, front bumper, paint job...all this for a set of $50 speakers.
Guess I shoulda just stayed home eh?
My sister knows best!
I will have the car back by end of next week ::hopefully::
Until then, I'm not driving ANYWHERE if there is more than an inch of snow.
Friday, February 12, 2010
So I Was a Celeb Today...
Ya. Totally.
ANYways.
Every morning, I wake up to 103.1 FreshFm, a local station outta London who plays the mainstream pop/rock/top 40. Yes I'm one to rock out to Metallica from time to time but I can't say no to Lady Gaga :) Taylor Swift? I could do without...
ANYways.
Yesterday, during the wonderfully entertaining segment entitled The World According to Mindy, she was talking about how Valentine's Day is approaching and about those who are single and that it really IS okay to be single on such an overly-saturated day.
This caused for me to, literally within moments of hearing the rant (I say that with love) in it's entirety, email her and thank her for her opinions.
This was my email, literally in it's entirety, that I wrote to her:
Thank YOU.
Thank you, thank you, THANK you for today's "World According to Mindy" in regards to love and being single.
Your point of view this morning felt like it was written for me, about me.
Even the opener, about attending a wedding after being newly single rang bells of familiarity with me.
I am the proverbial Independent Lady..."lady" possibly stretching it a little, lol. I belch in the presence of friends and I guess that isn't lady-like.
Digressing.
I pay my own bills, I bought my own car, I have my own house (rental with option to buy so it technically counts, lol), and I raise my 2 kids on the low income that single moms are famously tied to: not welfare, just EI :D
I recently went through some difficult times, in order of appearance:
1. a separation; no one likes breaking up with the love of their life…but when they proved to not be exactly faithful, that kind of justifies the departure.
2. a car accident (in front of a Church no less) where my vehicle was totalled; oh did I mention that I had just dumped $300 into it 4 days earlier? :)
3. job loss due to the economy; ok honestly the first week of being laid off was great. I caught up on lots of laziness. Now I'm bored :)
Point is, I'm in a mountain of debt and somehow, SOMEHOW happier in the last couple of weeks than I possibly ever was in the last 2 years of my relationship with my Baby Daddy :)
So what does all this ranting have to do with your blog? Lots.
I've learned in the last 6 months, since the inception of our separation, how I truly needed to step back 2 squares and love who I am and appreciate all the wonderful morsels of my life. I was so wrapped up in being angry and bitter in my relationship that I forgot about me.
Since I've moved out and painted my walls turquoise blue, I've had a great deal of positive energy enter my life. Yes, I'm without a job. But now I have time to invest into my little stationery company. I've rekindled my love for writing. And I'm dipping my toe into the waters of photography and considering going to school for it this year (strike pending of course, lol) and really, I'm so very comfortable being ALONE. This does not mean I am lonely. I am more complete and stable and filled with love than I was 6 months ago. I'm much stronger as well.
So I am looking forward to being single on Valentines Day; I'm going to curl up with my kids, throw myself into my art, and probably have a nap that day.
P.S.
The first wedding I attended after I left my boyfriend was for my ex-fiance. Somewhere, Alanis Morrissette is singing gently the lyrics to Ironic :)
Thank you, thank you, THANK you for today's "World According to Mindy" in regards to love and being single.
Your point of view this morning felt like it was written for me, about me.
Even the opener, about attending a wedding after being newly single rang bells of familiarity with me.
I am the proverbial Independent Lady..."lady" possibly stretching it a little, lol. I belch in the presence of friends and I guess that isn't lady-like.
Digressing.
I pay my own bills, I bought my own car, I have my own house (rental with option to buy so it technically counts, lol), and I raise my 2 kids on the low income that single moms are famously tied to: not welfare, just EI :D
I recently went through some difficult times, in order of appearance:
1. a separation; no one likes breaking up with the love of their life…but when they proved to not be exactly faithful, that kind of justifies the departure.
2. a car accident (in front of a Church no less) where my vehicle was totalled; oh did I mention that I had just dumped $300 into it 4 days earlier? :)
3. job loss due to the economy; ok honestly the first week of being laid off was great. I caught up on lots of laziness. Now I'm bored :)
Point is, I'm in a mountain of debt and somehow, SOMEHOW happier in the last couple of weeks than I possibly ever was in the last 2 years of my relationship with my Baby Daddy :)
So what does all this ranting have to do with your blog? Lots.
I've learned in the last 6 months, since the inception of our separation, how I truly needed to step back 2 squares and love who I am and appreciate all the wonderful morsels of my life. I was so wrapped up in being angry and bitter in my relationship that I forgot about me.
Since I've moved out and painted my walls turquoise blue, I've had a great deal of positive energy enter my life. Yes, I'm without a job. But now I have time to invest into my little stationery company. I've rekindled my love for writing. And I'm dipping my toe into the waters of photography and considering going to school for it this year (strike pending of course, lol) and really, I'm so very comfortable being ALONE. This does not mean I am lonely. I am more complete and stable and filled with love than I was 6 months ago. I'm much stronger as well.
So I am looking forward to being single on Valentines Day; I'm going to curl up with my kids, throw myself into my art, and probably have a nap that day.
P.S.
The first wedding I attended after I left my boyfriend was for my ex-fiance. Somewhere, Alanis Morrissette is singing gently the lyrics to Ironic :)
So how did I get my 5 minutes of fame, you ask?
Whell, there's a little something called Feedback Fridays where she reads in summary format some of the obviously kewl feedback she's received on the past week's topics...I was sitting at my Mac, checking mail, sipping my morning tea today when I heard "and we got an email from Lisa who says that she's so comfortable being alone, and that she's more complete and stable and filled with love now..."
I jumped up and yelled at my almost-13 year old daughter to come and listen. Thankfully, my Mac's radio connection was about a minute behind so by the time she arrived, I was able to load the radio's page and we sat and listened: me grinning from ear to ear because SHIT, I WAS ON THE RADIO and Zoey, sitting there with a look on her 7:45am face that said "Um...wow ok Mom what's the big dealio?"
So yeah.
That's my story about how I was on the air for all of 30 seconds...maybe not the 5 minutes I previously boasted...but did YOU get your name verbalized on-air today? No? Ok then, you go sit back down and let me continue to bust a groove :)
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Road Trippin' to Cayuga - The Neat Little Bookshop
So it's no secret to those who know me, either well or casually, that I love road trips. I almost advertise it with my fists pumping in the air once as I proclaim "Woo! Road trips! Let's go!"
I thoroughly enjoy to great depths, random spontaneous road trips that get me lost and take me on adventures.
And I have been going on road trips lately but they have not been random nor spontaneous, as they've had purpose. But they have, by all accounts, been adventurous!
So I bought a car, new to me but almost new and had a 30 day full warranty on it. Well wouldn't you know that 5 days before said warranty expires my car decides to not start AND shudder when I'm coasting around 2500 rpm, regardless of what gear I am in.
I call up the dealership in which I bought it from, Haldimand's, and brought it in for a look-see. They looked. They see'd. They found nothing in regards to the non-starting but were able to diagnose and correct the shudder (MAF Sensor). Of course! Because what generally happens is your car only acts up when a mechanic is NOT within arms reach. I know how it all works, lol.
But for the hour they did have it, I decided to take a little jaunt into town to see what Cayuga really had to offer other than the fly-by-night appearance of Kevin Bacon a few years back for some 5 minute appearance in an after-school-special type movie that I think went straight to DVD; if I remember correctly. I guess that whole Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon theory really DOES exist!
I stumbled across the most adorable little bookstore on, I swear, the smallest "main street" in Ontario, with the most adorable little lady who owned and operated it: Lorna Walker.
Walking in you automatically feel like you belong there. Or maybe that's just me and my love for books and literacy and writing and sniffing the inside spines of old books...? OMG did I just type that out loud? Oops.
Either way, it's a cozy little spot to be with only 2 main rows of books along the walls and a few small tables in the centre of the establishment that display all sorts of titles and words and authors.
Lorna ^^, who had just arrived to open for the day, slides off her coat and slings it over the back of a wooden chair that has seen better days. She offers me a cup of coffee and not one to decline a free drink, I accept.
I do not drink coffee by nature, I'm a tea girl all the way but I am courteous so I took the little China mug in my little hands, and dropped in 2 sugar cubes, added a sploosh of milk and sipped away while I perused the Poetry section. I was starting to think that this was better than Chapters...
Lorna and I bantered along nicely, as if we were old friends. It was really nice being in her company.
She asked if I would like to warm up behind the counter and sit at her small antique-looking desk as it was right near a large furnace vent. I accepted of course, because I get cold very easily and appreciate it when people, friends or strangers in this case, offer to aid in my warmth :)
I spent damn near the whole hour in there looking at all the books, waiting to see which spines popped out at me with colourful covers and attention-grabbing titles. I can usually tell if I will be interested in a book by the title alone. I think most people are. Kudos for a decent intro written on the inside panel of the cover.
She asked where I came from, what I was doing in town, and a whole gamut of other borderline-personal questions driven by obvious curiosity of this new stranger passing through in town. Had it been anyone else I may have been slightly more cautious about divulging certain aspects of my life to someone I didn't know, but it was her tone, her demeanour and her wording that allowed me to relax and end up story-telling her my autobio in the time frame of about 10 minutes :)
I have no doubt that once the weather improves I will return to Cayuga, to this Neat Little Bookshop and visit the space once again, this time being prepared to have coffee: 2 sugars and a sploosh of milk :)
Thank you Lorna, hope to see you soon!
Maybe I'll bring tea and you can try some of my favourite drink!
I thoroughly enjoy to great depths, random spontaneous road trips that get me lost and take me on adventures.
And I have been going on road trips lately but they have not been random nor spontaneous, as they've had purpose. But they have, by all accounts, been adventurous!
So I bought a car, new to me but almost new and had a 30 day full warranty on it. Well wouldn't you know that 5 days before said warranty expires my car decides to not start AND shudder when I'm coasting around 2500 rpm, regardless of what gear I am in.
I call up the dealership in which I bought it from, Haldimand's, and brought it in for a look-see. They looked. They see'd. They found nothing in regards to the non-starting but were able to diagnose and correct the shudder (MAF Sensor). Of course! Because what generally happens is your car only acts up when a mechanic is NOT within arms reach. I know how it all works, lol.
But for the hour they did have it, I decided to take a little jaunt into town to see what Cayuga really had to offer other than the fly-by-night appearance of Kevin Bacon a few years back for some 5 minute appearance in an after-school-special type movie that I think went straight to DVD; if I remember correctly. I guess that whole Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon theory really DOES exist!
I stumbled across the most adorable little bookstore on, I swear, the smallest "main street" in Ontario, with the most adorable little lady who owned and operated it: Lorna Walker.
Walking in you automatically feel like you belong there. Or maybe that's just me and my love for books and literacy and writing and sniffing the inside spines of old books...? OMG did I just type that out loud? Oops.
Either way, it's a cozy little spot to be with only 2 main rows of books along the walls and a few small tables in the centre of the establishment that display all sorts of titles and words and authors.
Lorna ^^, who had just arrived to open for the day, slides off her coat and slings it over the back of a wooden chair that has seen better days. She offers me a cup of coffee and not one to decline a free drink, I accept.
I do not drink coffee by nature, I'm a tea girl all the way but I am courteous so I took the little China mug in my little hands, and dropped in 2 sugar cubes, added a sploosh of milk and sipped away while I perused the Poetry section. I was starting to think that this was better than Chapters...
Lorna and I bantered along nicely, as if we were old friends. It was really nice being in her company.
She asked if I would like to warm up behind the counter and sit at her small antique-looking desk as it was right near a large furnace vent. I accepted of course, because I get cold very easily and appreciate it when people, friends or strangers in this case, offer to aid in my warmth :)
I spent damn near the whole hour in there looking at all the books, waiting to see which spines popped out at me with colourful covers and attention-grabbing titles. I can usually tell if I will be interested in a book by the title alone. I think most people are. Kudos for a decent intro written on the inside panel of the cover.
She asked where I came from, what I was doing in town, and a whole gamut of other borderline-personal questions driven by obvious curiosity of this new stranger passing through in town. Had it been anyone else I may have been slightly more cautious about divulging certain aspects of my life to someone I didn't know, but it was her tone, her demeanour and her wording that allowed me to relax and end up story-telling her my autobio in the time frame of about 10 minutes :)
I have no doubt that once the weather improves I will return to Cayuga, to this Neat Little Bookshop and visit the space once again, this time being prepared to have coffee: 2 sugars and a sploosh of milk :)
Thank you Lorna, hope to see you soon!
Maybe I'll bring tea and you can try some of my favourite drink!
Monday, February 1, 2010
Playing Catch Up, not Ketchup
Yeah I know. I haven't been around. You called, and I didn't pick up. You came over and I wasn't around. We made plans and I bailed. I'm sorry.
This is why.
As per usual, my life does not go without some kind of activity.
I totalled my car two weeks before Christmas (black ice/mother nature/bad luck)...in front of a Church no less.
Then it was Christmas. And I was surprisingly poor. But watching people skate around VicPark made me smile :)
Then I had to buy a new car. This is a pic off the net, not my actual car although it's quite similar. As a result of this, I was poorer once again. But it's another 5-speed so I'm happy about that.
Then there was New Years. And I got snowed in my GF's loft for 2 days.
Then my other girlfriend Mel lost her baby (see previous post of her from the summer). Following that, a funeral for little Isabella.
Then I lost my 9-5er due to the economy.
Then I decided I would finish my kitchen.
Then I put down the brush and penned out a list of Things To Do for the first quarter of 2010.
Then I sat down and wrote this blog.
Because our relationship is important too.
H'alot's gone on as you can see. I've had to balance things, and process loss, and move forward with new plans. Losing my job oddly enough was a blessing in disguise because now I can invest all this time and energy into urbanLove. You have NO idea the plans I've planned :D
I'm living life with so much vibrancy and positivity that it's almost scary how great I feel. I lost my job right when I am in a MOUNTAIN of debt (separation + new car = $$$), and somehow I'm friggin' happy! I don't know HOW I know this, but I know I will come out on top and find true success in the coming months.
I've rekindled my passion for writing and am loving this new relationship with photography. I'm drawing and painting and smiling and laughing and raising my kids and paying my bills (I budget like a MOFO so even tho I lost my job, I've saved for a Rainy Day and this is my Rainy Day so I will be okay for a while). Life really is good. Just like GE said :)
Speaking of rekindling...Nick and I have been getting along nicely for quite a while now. We are better friends now than we ever were so it's nice to be able to say "Yeah I'm taking the kids over so we can all have a roast beast for dinner" or "Yeah he's coming over to help me with priming my kitchen." A great deal of people cannot say that they get along with their former partners. I'm glad I can with him. But I am also close with Jake too so it's obvious the ex's that matter, are still my friends ;)
Hmm what else...well, that seems to be it! I promise I will try and keep in touch more often but in all reality, until the kitchen is complete and my office is set up and organized, and certain urbanLovely things are launched you may not see me for a little while. I know, sad. I'll miss you too! But I'll be back, promise!
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